Saturday, June 29, 2013

A Guide To Last Longer In Bed

By Justin Evans


One complaint that a lot of women have about their partners is that they cannot seem to last longer in bed. Premature ejaculation has always been a problem for a lot of men because they are not used to controlling their urges and just tend to orgasm very easily. In order to avoid these embarrassing issues, here are a few techniques that will help a man stay on his game.

A good way to control an ejaculation would be to practice kegals. Kegal exercises are actually in the ancient Indian text called the Kama Sutra and these exercises help men strengthen their pelvic muscles. All he has to do is just flex his pelvic muscles to make them much stronger than before. If he does this everyday, he will gain more control over his ejaculations.

Foreplay is always a good idea before going to the real deal. Women enjoy long hours of foreplay because women in general do take longer to reach orgasm then men. So by increasing the time for foreplay, a man will be making his partner even more and more excited and he will be able to lower his sexual excitement which will actually prolong his own orgasm and make him last longer.

A very popular strategy that most men do would be to ask their women to give them oral sex during foreplay. They do this so that when they ejaculate once, they will not ejaculate so soon the second time around. He should first get his woman to give him oral sex.

Now the only problem with the last technique is that after their first orgasm, most men go limp right away. So it is not only important to prevent premature ejaculation but it is vital to be able to recover easily as well. Kegal may also help with this matter but the biggest factor affecting recovery time would be blood circulation. In order to have good circulation, one should eat a lot of fruits and vegetables and exercise regularly.

So once he has taken care of this aspect, then he can use the last technique mentioned. After he has received oral sex, he should then go back into foreplay so that he can get aroused again. When the foreplay time is once again increased, the woman will become even more aroused. He may then give his partner oral sex as well to excite her a lot.

During sex, fingering the woman is a great way to get her really excited and maybe even get her to reach an orgasm. However, one should not make her have an orgasm that quickly otherwise the sex might end too soon. So the technique here would be for one to finger her until she is close enough to an orgasm then start with the penetration so that he will not worry about reaching an orgasm before she does.

So basically, those are some ways to last longer in bed. If a man plays all his cards right and apply these techniques at the right time, he will be able to pleasure his partner well. All it takes is strategy and good timing.




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